Bride furious with bridesmaid for ‘wrongfully’ keeping big secret from her
Planning a wedding is hard work if you want every tiny detail to be perfect – and sometimes the stress can bring out people’s bad attributes.
A bride has revealed she thinks it’s "wrong" that one of her bridesmaids kept her pregnancy from her, and will be five to six months pregnant on her big day.
Writing on Reddit, the unknown woman asked if she was being "selfish" for being angry at her friend after finding out the important news.
She asked fellow Reddit users whether her furious reaction was "allowed", as she was concerned about how the pregnancy would affect her upcoming hen party.
She wrote: "Long story short, I just found out that one of my bridesmaids will be 5-6 months pregnant on my wedding day.
"This bridesmaid was also planning my super secret bachelorette party that I know no details of, but I’m assuming involved drinking that will probably either be changed or cancelled.”
"Maybe I’m just thinking the worst here," she continued.
"But personally I think it’s wrong to get pregnant when you’re part of the bridal party and not tell the bride…"
The response to her post, titled "Am I allowed to be pi**ed or am I just selfish" did not go down too well with fellow Redditors.
One said: "Is it possible that she didn’t tell you because she knew your reflex reaction would NOT be ‘Congratulations! Let’s get you a bridesmaid’s dress that is comfortable!’ but instead, ‘This is going to mess up my bachelorette party’?"
Another said: "It’s not wrong to get pregnant if you’re going to be in a bridal party. You can’t ask someone to put their life on hold for your wedding. You are being selfish".
Someone else pointed out: "Your bachelorette party is just one night. Your friend’s pregnancy is the creation of another human that will last a lifetime".
Others thought it was good that she at least acknowledged the idea that her reacting angrily wouldn’t be fair.
One said that it’s "not selfish to have concerns" but she should be kind to her friend.
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