I can't stop fantasising about my boss who is twice my age
DEAR DEIDRE: I CAN’T stop fantasising about my boss.
He is twice my age, very charming, funny and good-looking.
I think about having sex with him the whole time.
The problem is we are both married and have children.
I am 25 and he is 44. I head up his social media team and work very closely with him.
It’s obvious there is an attraction between us.
I have never felt anything like it before.
No subject is off-limits and we have even spoken about what turns us on.
He told me he enjoys open-air sex and I confided that I would love to be blindfolded.
When we talk, sometimes I can hardly catch my breath.
I don’t want to be unfaithful but my sex life with my husband is dull – we only ever do it on a Saturday night and when we do, it lasts about three minutes.
How can I get over these strong urges I have without having sex with my boss? Do I need to get a new job?
DEIDRE SAYS: The best way to pour water on the fiery urges you have for your boss is to turn up the heat in your marital bed.
You need to talk to your husband about your concerns – he will no doubt be feeling the same.
Read my support pack 50 Ways To Add Fun To Sex and choose some new methods you would both like to try.
As you and your husband reconnect, the red-hot feelings you have towards your boss will cool.
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