My husband wants to bring his cross-dressing into the bedroom

DEAR DEIDRE: MY husband’s cross-dressing is such a turn-off.

We have been married for 12 years. I knew about it from the start and was OK with it.


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But as time has gone on – he’s now 40, while I’m 39 – he’s wanted to dress in women’s clothes more and more. I feel like it’s taking over our marriage.

He always asks my permission but now he wants me to get involved and I feel he’s pushing it on me.

He’s even asked if he can dress as a woman, with lacy bra and full make-up, when we have sex.

I love him but it doesn’t do anything for me, quite the opposite in fact. I feel like I’m losing my husband.

I don’t want to offend him – but I’d also rather he kept me out of it.

DEIDRE SAYS: You have accommodated his desire to cross-dress and been supportive – but that doesn’t mean you have to take part.

Now you need to be clear that you have gone as far as you are prepared to and while you are not offended by what he does, it isn’t for you.

My support pack on Standing Up For Yourself should help you convey your feelings without making him feel rejected.

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