My married sister sent my husband an X-rated message and it could destroy us

I know he would never cheat but I’m having panic attacks.

My husband was visibly shocked and has no idea why she would send it.

When I showed my sister’s husband he said I was going mad and should ignore it. We are 40, happily married for 12 years.

My sister and her husband are a few years older than us. I can’t sleep now.

I dream about her texting him and doing stuff, and wake up in a cold sweat. I worry I am going to bring my marriage crashing down.

DEIDRE SAYS: All this anguish but you haven’t confronted your sister?

Ask her what led to her to do it. Have you always been rivals?

Are you in such a state because this is taking you back to some childhood trauma?

Or is her marriage in trouble and your husband an outlet for her fantasies?

Her own husband seems to be in denial.

Tell your husband every time you need a reassuring hug.

Calm yourself with the tips in my e-leaflet Self-help for Stress.

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