My wife won't let me show her any affection and her sex drive is completely dead
We both work full-time and have busy lives. We have been married for 12 years and have a nine-year-old son. I am 34, my wife is 33.
We used to have a great sex life but it has now dwindled to nothing.
I have asked her if she misses sex but she says not.
She says she can understand how I feel and she would like to get her sex drive back but she can’t just switch it on again.
DEIDRE SAYS: When sex drive has disappeared, it is hard to imagine ever wanting sex again.
Rather than pressing for intercourse, giving each other a massage – without expecting sex afterwards – can get you back into the habit of intimacy.
My e-leaflet on Sex-play Sex Therapy can guide you through helping your wife rediscover the joy of sex.
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