Self-confessed 'Stepford wife' says she lives to please her husband
An Instagram model says the secret to a happy love life is for men to be dominant and more women should adopt an old-school domestic ‘traditional wife’ role around the home.
Monica Huldt, 37, who lives in Scottsdale, Arizona, US, knew from a young age that she was destined to be a doting wife and prides herself on putting her husband’s (John, 39) needs first.
The housewife, who is originally from Malmo, Sweden, considers herself to be a real life Stepford wife.
‘I’ve never been a woman that has strived to have a huge career,’ she said.
‘I don’t want to work to be honest – I love being a housewife and taking care of my husband.
‘Ever since I saw that movie The Stepford Wives, I knew I wanted my life to be exactly like that.’
A typical day for the model revolves around taking care of the house, working out and feeding her husband.
She said: ‘If he asks me for something specific, he always gets what he wants.’
Monica’s husband also expects her to keep up appearances at home.
She said: ‘John likes me to dress nicely at home, like sexy-sporty, and he doesn’t like me wearing make-up around the house.
‘Some women might not like being told what to do or wear but I love it when he gives me instructions.
‘When I deliver, it makes him happy – and in turn that makes me happy.’
Monica’s subservient nature goes beyond the kitchen and into the bedroom where she says she’s available to fulfil her husband’s needs whenever he wants.
She said: ‘When it comes to the bedroom I am very submissive and he’s dominant. I like it when a man takes charge and takes what he wants.
‘I am always available for my husband’s needs and I love it. It’s a turn-on for me so I don’t have any issues with that.’
Monica doesn’t have a 9 to 5 job, but makes money posting pictures on adult platform OnlyFans. She claims it’s reinforced her traditional ideas about gender, as her subscribers appreciate her approach with her husband.
‘I talk to a lot of married men who say they aren’t fully content in their relationships because they wish their wives would pay them more attention,’ she says.
She and her husband don’t currently have any children but Monica has strong views on parenting for when the day eventually comes.
The model said: ‘When we have children I will absolutely raise them very traditionally.
‘If we have a girl, I’ll teach her everything I know on how to be a good wife and my husband will do the same with our son.’
Although this movement has been linked to the far right in the US, Monica believes there are three major benefits to it.
She said: ‘First of all, you have more freedom to take care of yourself. I work out five times a week because my timetable allows me to, I don’t have to worry about rushing home from work.
‘Another point is that you will have a stronger bond with your husband. You’re dedicating your life to make him happy the same way he’s working to make you happy.
‘It’s that equal consideration towards each other that makes you close. And lastly, living like a “trad wife” means you’ll have the advantage of seeing your kids grow up. You’ll be there for them all the time.’
Although it’s not an option many people can – or would – choose, it makes them happy, and that’s all that matters.
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