The thought of my boyfriend's sleazy past makes my skin crawl

DEAR DEIDRE: I AM struggling to get over my boyfriend’s sleazy past.

He has been with a lot of women before me, including prostitutes, older women and threesomes, and has cheated before.


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I don’t agree with that sort of ­behaviour, but I thought I would give him a chance because he seemed to really like me.

I am 23 and he is 25. He treats me amazingly and he is very loving. We have been together for almost two years and I thought I would be over his past by now.

I know we all have a history, but it still upsets and angers me because the men I have been with before have always kept their past romances to themselves.

The thought of my boyfriend being sleazy before we met makes my skin crawl. I dislike feeling this way, and I sometimes look at him differently because of it.

DEIDRE SAYS: That was then and he is with you now, enjoying a faithful, loving relationship.

He can’t change his sexual history, and, in any case, his past has made him the person you love today.

If his past comes into your mind again, have a mental picture ready of one of your best moments together and focus on that instead.

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